And glad to be there! It has been a crazy week. We're still trying to sale the house. My FIL still has Parkinson's. The kid and skids still have activities to get to and from and the dogs still want to be fed. No matter how crazy life gets, it still continues.
I'm hoping the law of averages will kick in and we will get an offer on the house soon. We've had five showings in the last weekend. Two Saturday, one Sunday and two today.
As for the FIL, there are good days and bad days. He is contrary and set in his ways. MIL is no better.
The above was written yesterday. Continuing thoughts for today...
It is frustrating. It is nerve racking. It is life. We have to live it. Dealing with aging parents is a responsibility. It is also difficult. You don't want to treat them like children, but they are acting like rebellious children. They are adults and you want to treat them like adults, but they won't listen and they don't see the dangers in their decisions. The life cycle is at times cruel. My FIL's body is betraying him. His medicines and age are changing him, corrupting his mind. My MIL has always been taken care of so having to be the strong one is not natural to her. I know she is frustrated. I know she is unsure of the future. I know that things are difficult.But sometimes we have to put on our big girl undies and deal!
Mr. MckTchr is pushing forward. He is being strong and trying to deal as best he can. Each day brings new frustrations on top of the old. It is a struggle. What do you do when your parents can no longer care for themselves, won't listen to you, and you can't give up everything to care for them 24/7. No one wants to say permanent residential facility, but that may be the way to go.
We would like to move them in with us, but if they still won't listen and still won't do what is needed it won't do any good. The only benefit is having them close by so we can more quickly respond to falls. VA assistance is a long list, we must wait and push to move up. Home health is expensive and their insurance won't cover all that is needed. A facility is also expensive.
Answers we seek...and miles to go before we sleep. *sigh.